An Inside Look at Service Dogs
This post was originally shared by an acquaintance in one of the online Service Dog groups I am a part of. With his permission, I am sharing it with you all. If it touches you the way it moved me, please forward it on to a friend.
Written by Todd Smith.
“You are so lucky!”
We hear it frequently. And it always makes me cringe.
Many times when I am out and about with my wife and her guide dog,
people comment about how ‘lucky’ she is. I like to think it is because
she is married to me, but after a few years of hearing it, I now know
better.
It is because of her guide dog.
The comments
are, for the most part, innocently made because of the general public’s
misunderstanding of just exactly how being blind can impact a person’s
day-to-day living. They do not see the barriers, both physical and
mental, which must be overcome in order to do the same things that
so-called “normal” people do every day and seemingly take for granted.
Things like getting safely from one place to the next, not bumping into
other people and things when walking, noticing hazards that can trip
someone easily and possibly cause an injury, and even simply walking
across the street without being hit by an inattentive driver. These are
some of the reasons she has her guide dog with her, not because she is
‘lucky’. And yet we hear it all the time: “You are so lucky that you can
have your dog come with you. I wish I could take my dog with me
everywhere I go.” They never see the real reason behind having the guide
dog; all they see is the dog.
And it is not just guide dog
users that hear the ‘lucky’ platitude. The general public sees a person
with any kind of disability who uses any kind of service dog and
automatically uses THEIR OWN interpretation of THEIR OWN life to come to
the conclusion that somehow being able to have the service dog “along
for the ride” makes the person with the disability ‘lucky’, because,
after all, “you get to take your special friend along everywhere you
go”.
The sentiment is genuine, but the understanding is lacking.
So, was my wife ‘lucky’ that she was shaken as an infant, causing her
retinas to detach? Was she ‘lucky’ to have the scars on the inside of
her brain from the shaking to swell, press on her brain stem, and cause
her to have seizures? Is she also ‘lucky’ that the visual cortex in her
brain was so damaged by the shaking that there is no type of medical
treatment or procedure which can ever allow her to see ‘normally’?
She will never do the simple things that others with ‘normal’ vision
do. She adapts by using special programs on her computer to ‘read’ the
text on the screen. She adapts by using a portable GPS device because
she can’t read the street signs. She adapts by using an Audio
Description service when we go to the movies or a live performance play.
She adapts by using specially marked knobs on the stove, washer, dryer,
dishwasher, and with marked shelves in the pantry and kitchen. She
adapts by walking or taking the bus or train because she cannot drive.
She adapts when shopping by using a UPC scanner to read what the items
are. And yes, she adapts in her travels by using a guide dog because she
can’t see you and your shopping cart, automobile, stroller, or anything
else. Is that what makes her 'lucky'?
I can honestly tell you
that my wife would turn her guide dog into a pet dog in a New York
minute if doing so meant that she could see like every 'normal' person
and not have to constantly be gawked at, questioned, bullied, and made
to feel inferior simply because of the type of mitigating device she
uses to try and compensate for her blindness. Would she still be 'lucky'
then?
The whole 'lucky' bit comes from those who are dog
lovers and would like to be able to take their pet dog places with them.
That’s all they see when they see a service dog working for a person
with a disability: being able to take a dog places. Their thought
patterns are all about them and their own desires; not about what is
going on in the real world of those with disabilities. It is kind of
like saying this to a person in a wheelchair: "You are so lucky that you
get to sit down all the time."
Using a service dog is a lot of
work. It’s expensive. It’s time consuming. The logistics are mind
numbing. One has to prepare many things in advance just to take a quick
trip to the store. The dog has to be brushed, relieved, have all the
gear in place, special leashes, and many other things which differ
depending on what the dog needs to do. And when it comes to trips that
are overnight or longer, there is a lot more which needs to be
considered such as food, bowls, clean up supplies, crates or sleeping
mats, vaccination records, and other things. At least a wheelchair
doesn’t have to be fed, watered, walked or relieved. A white cane won’t
get sick in the hotel room and puke on the carpet. But for many service
dog handlers, a wheelchair or white cane simply cannot do what needs to
be done efficiently or quickly, and many times cannot give the personal
confidence and reassurance that handling a properly trained service dog
can bring.
When one truly has an understanding of what the
day-to-day life of a person with a disability who uses a service dog is,
one is in a better position to see that it isn’t ‘luck’; it’s
adaptability. It’s overcoming. It’s finding a way to get things done in
spite of the challenges one faces. In the simplest term: It’s doing what
works best to be as independent as possible. There is no ‘luck’
involved.
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